"A conventional "success" story is one where, with each "next", the protagonist has more money, more respect and more possessions. I'd like to suggest an alternative success story--one where with each "next" the protagonist is closer to finding that spot where she is no longer held back by her heart, and she explodes with talent, and her character blossoms, and the gift she has to offer the world is apparent."

-Po Bronson from "What should I do with my Life" p222